7 Things I Wish I Knew Before Moving to San Diego

Moving to San Diego feels like stepping into a postcard—sunshine, ocean breezes, and laid-back beach culture. But behind the picture-perfect scenery, there are some important things to know before making the move. Whether you’re relocating for work, weather, or lifestyle, it's worth being prepared for the unexpected. From hidden costs to community quirks, these insights come from real residents and trusted sources. Here are the seven things I wish I knew before moving to San Diego.

• The Cost of Living Is No Joke

• Microclimates Are Real

• Traffic and Public Transit Aren’t Great

• The Lifestyle Is Extremely Casual

• Nature Is Always Just Around the Corner

• It Can Take Time to Build Community

• Tourism Impacts Daily Life

1. The Cost of Living Is No Joke

San Diego consistently ranks among the most expensive cities in the country. As of 2024, median home prices top $925,000, and renting a one-bedroom apartment often costs more than $2,400 per month. Add in higher-than-average gas prices, grocery costs, and utility bills, and it’s clear that your paycheck may not stretch as far here. While the lifestyle is undeniably appealing, the financial pressure can catch many newcomers off guard. If you’re planning a move, budgeting realistically is crucial.

2. Microclimates Are Real

San Diego’s landscape creates a patchwork of microclimates, meaning the weather can vary dramatically from one neighborhood to another. It might be sunny and 75 degrees in Mission Valley, while just a few miles away, La Jolla sits under a heavy blanket of coastal fog. Inland areas like El Cajon and Poway often experience 90-degree heat while coastal zones stay cool year-round. This weather variation influences everything from your clothing choices to your energy bills. It’s smart to factor in climate preferences when choosing a neighborhood.

3. Traffic and Public Transit Aren’t Great

While not as notorious as Los Angeles, San Diego traffic can be a major frustration, especially during rush hour. Freeways like the I-5, I-8, and 805 often grind to a halt, and public transit options—though expanding—remain limited. The trolley system is clean and reliable but doesn’t reach many residential neighborhoods. Most locals rely on a personal vehicle to get around. If you're used to walking or taking subways, expect a big adjustment.

4. The Lifestyle Is Extremely Casual

Forget suits and heels—San Diego lives in flip-flops. This city embodies the Southern California relaxed lifestyle, where surfwear is perfectly acceptable for brunch or grocery runs. Even in professional settings, business casual is the norm, especially in tech and creative fields. For transplants from more formal cities, this cultural shift can take some getting used to. But once you adapt, it’s easy to embrace the comfort and ease of it all.

5. Nature Is Always Just Around the Corner

One of San Diego’s biggest lifestyle perks is its access to nature. Hiking trails like Cowles Mountain, the stunning coastline at Torrey Pines, and the scenic beauty of Balboa Park are all just minutes away. With sunshine nearly year-round, locals are constantly outdoors—hiking, biking, surfing, or just enjoying the sunset. Whether you're an avid adventurer or a casual stroller, you’ll find no shortage of outdoor options. It’s a huge part of what makes living here so enriching.

6. It Can Take Time to Build Community

Despite the friendly vibes, many newcomers say it takes time to form real connections. San Diego’s large population of transplants and military families means people come and go frequently. Unlike smaller towns where everyone knows their neighbors, it takes effort to build relationships here. But community is out there—especially in neighborhoods like South Park and Kensington, which offer walkability and local events. Joining interest-based groups or volunteering can really help.

7. Tourism Impacts Daily Life

San Diego is a tourist magnet, attracting over 35 million visitors per year. Popular spots like Balboa Park, the San Diego Zoo, and Ocean Beach can get overwhelmingly crowded, especially in summer. Locals quickly learn to avoid certain areas during peak tourism times. This is just part of living in a city known for its vacation-worthy attractions. While it can be a minor inconvenience, tourism also helps fuel the economy and keep the city vibrant.

Conclusion

Living in San Diego offers an unbeatable mix of natural beauty, outdoor living, and sunny vibes—but it’s not without its challenges. From high living costs and traffic frustrations to the slower pace of community-building, there are some realities to weigh before making the move. That said, if you come prepared and choose the right neighborhood, San Diego can be one of the most rewarding places to call home.

Melina Rissone

Having sold properties for more than 20 years and earning various prestigious awards throughout the course of her career, Melina Rissone has more than earned her reputation as one of San Diego's most skilled and trustworthy real estate brokers selling homes and luxury condominiums. Her loyal clientele would share that Melina brings structure and planning to chaos. She specializes in supporting her clients and their referrals; families and individuals going thru divorce and seniors and active adults planning their moves and financial decisions during their retirement years..

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• Melina is bilingual in English and German.
• Recognized as the Top 4% of all real estate brokers in San Diego County in 2021 and the Top 3% of Coldwell Banker International.
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• Coldwell Banker Global Luxury and Institute of Luxury Home Marketing Certified.